Kevin Tsai once said: “I didn’t forgive you, but it doesn’t matter anymore.” I think it is a brilliant quote.

It’s not easy to forgive someone, especially those who have hurt you deeply. Forgiving, forgetting, and letting go are much easier said than done.

If you really can’t find a way to forgive others, maybe think of it another way: you don’t have to forgive them. But you can choose to let yourself go from the pain. Why bother?

It takes wisdom to say: “It doesn’t matter anymore.” It means you have understood that life is precious, and we shouldn’t be wasting energy and time on hating, or living in the pain of the past. We must look forward. There’s no need to erase the past—instead, just tell yourself: “It doesn’t matter anymore. I will release myself from hurt, and look forward to a better tomorrow.”

蔡康永有一句名言我很喜欢,“我没有原谅你,而是我不计较了”,这一句话我觉得说的特别好。

原谅一个人特别不简单,尤其是那些深深伤害你的人,真的很难做到说原谅就原谅,说释怀就释怀,说忘记就忘记。

若你真的无法原谅那些伤害你的人的行为,或许你可以换个角度去想想,你可以不原谅,但你可以选择放过自己,很多人很多事,不如就算了吧。

“算了”是一种人生的智慧,也是一种豁达的体现,你领悟到人生漫漫长,不想再浪费时间和精力去记恨,人不能永远活在过去的记忆里,我们要做的是往前看,面对过往,你不用花时间去遗忘,不用想办法去释怀,只是算了吧,我放过自己了,相信往后的日子一定会好起来!