Go beyond the problem

We all know people who do not know shame. They have no sense of decency, and their mouths know no courtesy. They love creating rumours out of thin air, and have no regard for facts. They revel in bringing others down, and dragging others through the mud. If you are affected by them, or feel sad because of what they say, it only makes them feel better. The more you give in, the more they’ll abuse you.

There are no simple or difficult problems—they are all the same at the core. When trying to solve a problem, try rising above it and see it for its real nature. Once you know the problem inside out, you’d be able to get ahead, and leave the people who create problems behind !

我们身边,总有那么一种人,长着一幅歪嘴脸,他们心中没有耻辱感,脸皮厚,嘴巴毒。喜欢造谣生非,无中生有,不顾事实,睁眼说瞎话,以诽谤他人为乐,以指责他人为荣,以污损他人为趣。要是你受他们的影响,越感到委屈,他们越觉得快活;越受不了他们的折腾,他们越会狠狠踩你。

嘴在别人身上,爱说就让他说去。你不要刻意想办法去回应他们。最好的回应,就是把自己百练成金,把实力和实绩摆在他们面前,让他们脸发红,心燥热,无地自容。只有这样,那些别人点燃的子虚乌有的虚旺之火,才会被扑灭,才能让人们看清真相,还你清白。

人几乎每天都会面对大大小小的问题,有些人看到问题就闪避,眼不见为净,从不正面迎击问题,所以这种人很容易就被问题给控制了。但世界上哪有解决不了的问题呢?能不能够解决,视乎你是否愿意面对问题。况且,世上的问题没有简单和复杂之别,用超越产生问题的层次,在问题之上去思考去解决问题,就不存在被问题难倒的情况了。看透了问题的本质后,必能超越他人走在前方,远远地将那些只会制造问题的人抛在后头!