Choose the right friends for an exciting life 和磁场接近的朋友交往,你的人生更精彩!

赖彩云 Jessy Lai Chai Yu—choosing-the-right-friends

Choose the right friends for an exciting life

Continuous learning and self-development is a big deal for me. I have always felt the need to constantly learn, upgrade and improve myself, regardless of which stage of life I am in. I am convinced that that is the key to living a gratifying life.

It is also because of this that I love hanging around people who love learning as well. I also have many women in my life who lead absolutely exciting lives.

I appreciate the time together with them. Our beliefs are similar, are values compatible, and we always have so much fun discussing all kinds of issues. Every time I meet them, I feel energized and inspired.

Their lives are never boring. No matter how busy life gets, they never forget to love themselves, and keep learning. They are also great friends—no matter what trouble I got myself into, they are always there to lend a listening ear and their emotional support.

These friends find joy in their careers, their lives, their marriage and their children. I am so impressed by how they balance all the roles they have, and continue being an inspiration to others. They strive to keep a work-life balance, and never let the hectic pace of life get to them.

Every time I meet them, I feel like I am upgraded a little—not just in terms of knowledge, but also spiritually.

I truly believe that women need to have friends like these. We can share exciting activities, our career insights, family stories and connect with each other on a deep level. I love the fact that we are all independent and strong, yet we are also each other’s support system.

Did you know? People who love learning are always curious about things. They are always energetic, and they don’t get tired easily. They look forward to each new day and the adventures it has to offer.

The older I get, the more I understand that it is not easy to have friends like these. Yet they are so important. These are the forces that will inspire you to be better, and be there to catch you when you fall.

Friends, success does not mean you should stop learning. In fact, you need to keep up and keep moving, or else this unforgiving world will leave you behind. Learning and growing is not a burdensome task. In fact, with the right people, learning can be the most rewarding and joyful things one can do.

Let’s put it this way. Everyone has the right to choose how they one to live. Maybe you are not one of those that seek constant growth. Maybe life is already giving you enough stress, and you just want to be comfortable and stress free. But if you open your eyes, you will realize that the people who are curious and excited are also the ones that lead happier and more youthful lives. Why don’t you try it too?

和磁场接近的朋友交往,你的人生更精彩!

我是一个非常注重学习与成长的人,一直以来,我都认为人生就是一个不断学习的过程,人活着,就应该不断的发觉自己的潜能,才能活得精彩!

或许因为爱学习的性格使然,我特别喜欢跟那些上进与自我成长的人在一起,而我身边也有着一些活得精彩的女性朋友!

真的,我非常享受与她们在一起的时光,因为我们思想接近、观念吻合,我们聚在一起不断的脑力激荡讨论着各种大大小小的课题,每次聚会后都觉得受益良多。

她们的生活绝无冷场,纵使工作在忙碌,也不忘爱自己、不忘学习,跟她们在一起,遇到再大的难题,他们也愿意借出双耳倾听,给的建议大多受用!

这群朋友,乐在工作,享受生活,就算已经结婚生子,还是有本事将事业与家庭照料完美。单身的朋友更棒,她们不随波逐流,虽然没有爱情生活,但她们追求事业的成就之余,也不忘好好过生活,懂得平衡工作与生活,真正的活出自己想要的人生。

每一次与她们相聚后,总觉得自己有提升了一点,这样的提升不止是知识增长,心灵也无比满足!

我深深觉得女性身边必须拥有这样的朋友,因为大家可以一起做许多的活动。我喜欢与朋友去看电影、上课,我们也会一起去旅行,我喜欢这样的交往关系,各自拥有独立生活的能力,但又是能够分担解忧的好朋友。相聚时,愉悦尽兴,但也保有各自独处的空间。

你们知道吗?爱学习的人,对任何事情都怀有好奇心,在生活中,他们总是精力充沛,不轻易言累,常常期待生活中有惊喜的事情发生。

年纪越大,越明白,想要交这样的朋友实在很难的,因为好朋友不会依附你而活,大家做朋友拥有轻松自在,有的是相互的欣赏、关心与鼓励。

在人生的道路上,互相扶持、共同成长,彼此是对方的心灵加油站,常常交换对生命的看法、对事情的意见,相约去做一些我们未曾做过的事,寻找新的体验。
各位,成功了,不代表你就可以停止学习,停止前进只会让你固步自封,思维封闭,甚至变得固执。与这类型的人交往,你会发现,彼此的话题依然兜兜转转在某些人某些事上面,永远不会有更新,也就意味着,就算你们下次见面也是没什么好聊,更枉论寻求一次有质感的谈话,或许你们还会因为找不到话题而尴尬!

这么说吧,每个人都有选择生活的权利,或许你并不是那些想要不断求进步的人,因为每一次的成长总伴随着压力,你只想安稳的过日子。但你又认真观察的话,会发现,对世界总充满好奇的人,总是保持在最年轻的状态,而那些不愿意活到老学到老的人,早就老去了!

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