Welcoming 2016 with a big bang!

Dato Seri Jessy Lai leads Mon Space (M) Sdn Bhd of Mon Space Group, in 2016, to corporate success

2016 is indeed a great year for us at Mon Space to celebrate – Not only have we successfully ventured into multiple industries from media entertainment companies to telecommunications, health & beauty, power, property & real estate; the team has been an essential pillar to the growth of Mon Space Group. This year, we have […]

Tolerance, by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

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心靈的寬度,不是你認識了多少人,而是你包容了多少人 。 Xīnlíng de kuāndù, bùshì nǐ rènshíle duōshǎo rén, ér shì nǐ bāoróngle duōshǎo rén. The essence of our soul is not measured by how many people we know, but by how many we can tolerate. 【寬度】 法國大文豪雨果曾說過:“世界上最寬廣的是海洋,比海洋更寬廣的是天空;比天空更寬廣的是人的胸懷。”心靈的寬度,不在於你相識滿天下,而在於你的的胸襟究竟能寬容多少人、多少事物。學會了包容,等同學會了生活;懂得了包容,就懂得了快樂,包容,不僅可以讓你的心胸變的寬闊,同時讓你得到別人的信任與尊重。 A powerful Chinese proverb, indeed. One that needs a bit of soul searching to figure out […]

Virtue, by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

被人伤害了不说,是一种善良.被人诋毁了不说,是一种涵养 。 Bèi rén dǐ huǐ liǎo bù shuō, shì yī zhǒng hányǎng. If someone commits slander towards you, keeping silent is a form of virtue. 【涵養】 不是說,被人冤枉誤解了,絲毫不為自己解釋,但有些事情,無論你如何解釋也是枉然,反而會被他人認為是辯解。此時,不如選擇沉默,也無需怨天尤人,若你覺照反思後,有錯則改之,無則嘉勉。面對傷害,微笑是一種大度,被人詆毀,不理會是一種超凡。切記,別人的嘴我們無法去控制,但我們可以抱一顆淡然的心去看一切紛擾。 The Late Benjamin Franklin (The First American, one of the founding fathers of America) has a popular quote, “Silence is virtue”. In many Chinese proverbs that I […]

Life Advice, by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

学会说话只要两年,懂得沉默却要五十年。 Xuéhuì shuōhuà zhǐyào liǎng nián, dǒngdé chénmò què yào wǔshí nián It takes 2 years to learn how to talk, but 50 years to learn how to keep quiet. 【沉默】 我們花了兩年學會說話,卻要花上六十年才懂得沉默 在這個眾生喧嘩的年代,大多數人都擁有一流的說話技術,“說”固然能提高溝通素質,但有時越說越多,反而造成彼此漸行漸遠。須知,有效的溝通在於讀懂人心,而不停的說話,往往卻變成不了解對方,結果矛盾加深。適時的沉默,才是攻占人心的關鍵。 This Chinese proverb is a classic issue we see going around us today – Many speak their mind but keep it closed. […]

Life Advice by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

什么事都不要急着辩解,什么话都不要忙着倾述。 Shénme shì dōu bùyào jízhuó biànjiě, shénme huà dōu bùyào mángzhe qīng shù Don’t rush into judging & telling the world about anything. 【自清】 什么事都不要急着辩解,什么话都不要忙着倾述 被人中傷時,不要急著為自己辯解,免得愈描愈黑。所以,是非与谣言止于智者,被冤枉就淡忘,被误解就善解,时间久了自然清者自清、浊者自浊,也就是日久见人心。 The word “冲动” perfectly explains this Chinese proverb. It means rushing into something without thinking much about it first. Something I intimately remember as this is a very […]

Life Advice, by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

做人如山,望万物而容万物; 做人似水,能进退而知进退。 Zuòrén rúshān, wàng wànwù ér róng wànwù; zuòrén sì shuǐ, néng jìntuì ér zhī jìntuì. As a person you need to be open like mountains and formless & flexible like water. 【能容】 山,予人之感覺是穩重、強大、屹立不倒並寬容的包容世間萬物,做事就應如山一樣,胸懷廣闊並腳踏實地,而水性柔兒能變形,海納百川,利萬物而不爭,碰到堅硬巨石而會繞道而行,遇到細小之物則會溫柔的包容。做人若如水,就能進退得宜,柔中帶刚,並有能容气度,故有俗語稱:做事如山,做人如水。 It’s hard to explain this Chinese proverb. In the first sentence, the Chinese proverb encourages people to be like mountains […]

Life Learnings, by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

人生的高度,不是你看清了多少事,而是你看轻了多少事。 Rénshēng de gāodù, bùshì nǐ kàn qīngle duōshǎo shì, ér shì nǐ kànqīngle duōshǎo shì. Living a good life is not about how much you experience, but how much you’re willing to let go. 【看輕】 人生不如意之事十之八九,生活哪能事事順心、凡事如意?能做的唯有莫執著,學會放下。放下不等於放棄,而是一種生活態度,莫執著不代表不認真,是一種隨緣的智慧!學會看輕,你會幸福,學會看淡,你會快樂。 Many people have the idea of experiencing everything in life before you die – And if you ask […]

Influence, by Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai

用生命影响生命。 Yòng shēngmìng yǐngxiǎng shēngmìng Use your life experiences to influence others’ lives 【影响】 对于“生命意义”,当代作家史铁生先生曾说过:“生命的价值在于以生命影响生命的过程。”若能将自身的人生经验与品德,通过一颗诚挚以及助人的大爱心态去传播,身体力行以自生命去影响另一个人的生命,让生命走入生命,那么,所有的不美好都有转变的可能性。 This classic Chinese proverb is the perfect example of what the Chinese culture teaches us when we were young – Lead by example. When I was young, both my parents use to tell me, “Yun, always remember to follow good […]

Dato’ Sri Jessy Lai @ Mon Space Group Asia Fundraising w/Jackie Chan: Tianjin Explosion 天佑天津

Dato Seri Jessy Lai with Jackie Chan on Charity & Donation with Mon Space Group Asia for the Tianjin China Explosion in 2015
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