[vc_row type=”in_container” scene_position=”center” text_color=”dark” text_align=”left” overlay_strength=”0.3″][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ width=”1/2″][vc_column_text]Life isn’t Perfect, but You can Decide Your Future!

I was cleaning out some old books and albums, and so went through photos and letters from many years ago. I must say, it was a pleasant trip down memory lane.

It is normal to feel nostalgic once in a while. It is a sign that you have had great memories in life, and you should feel good about it. But we need to beware of being overly obsessed with our past. It can mean that you have unfulfilled wishes in life.

In my work, I get to meet a lot of young people. One of them once asked me: “If you could turn back time, what would you change, and why?”

My answer to this question will always remain the same: I do not leave myself room for regrets, regardless which stage of life I’m in. Regrets do nothing to make my life better.

Many young people feel lost about life, and have no idea what to do or where to go. Their fear of the unknown future can often cause them to give up great opportunities, or worse, cause them to stagnate in life. There are also many who choose to retreat from life’s hardships and struggles. They hide in their little bunker, until life passes them by and then they realise they perhaps should have embraced risks a bit more.

There is a famous quote that goes: “When you look back on life, it looks like a well thought out script. But when you’re in it, it all feels like one big mess. One unexpected event follows another, yet when you connect the dots on hindsight, it all makes perfect sense.”

This quote is an appropriate encouragement for the youths of today. You need to believe in your choices, and stay faithful to your passion.

The days of your youth may face great obstacles and challenges that will change the course of your life. You will be hard pressed on all sides and there might be little room for you to breath. You can lose control of things, and you can get frightened.

But please do not back out and do not give up. What you face now are all but necessary process of life. As long as you stay true to your passion and your calling in life, I am sure you will find your way out of the mess one day.

Let me assure you—true enjoyment and satisfaction only comes after sufferings and pain. Be patient, and your day will come.

We live in a time of confusion and information overload. You need to spend huge amounts of effort to determine what you really want in life. Amidst all of this, do remember that you always have the power to choose. Do not forfeit opportunities just because you think you’re not good enough. Don’t let self doubt hold you back.

Chances wait for nobody, and you get no second chance in life. If you give up now, you will surely regret it one day.

Sure, tangible goals and plans are important, but it is also crucial to add a dash of boldness and a pinch of passion.

Stay true to yourself, and let your dreams bring you to places you have never imagined.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][vc_column column_padding=”no-extra-padding” column_padding_position=”all” background_color_opacity=”1″ background_hover_color_opacity=”1″ width=”1/2″][vc_column_text]年轻人,人生或许不完美,但你有选择未来的权利!

最近在整理旧书籍与相簿时,翻阅了许久未曾细看的旧照以及旧书信,看着一张张曾经熟悉的笑颜、那些字里行间透露的快乐,不知不觉就掉入了记忆的时光机。

人,免不了偶尔会想起从前,那是一种缅怀,但不代你必须沉浸在过去的时光中,而当一个人总不自觉地沉溺在过去时,只代表一件事:你生命中有所遗憾。

我的工作常让我遇见许多年轻的朋友,记得有一位年轻朋友曾问我一个问题,我觉得挺有意思:若时光倒流,给你一次弥补过去曾后悔没有做到的事情,那会是什么呢?

当我听到这样的问题,我知道不止这一次,若我在未来再次遇到这样的问题,我的答案永远也不会改变:

无论身处人生的哪一个阶段,我不会让自己的留下任何遗憾以及后悔,因为对我而言,后悔并没有参考的价值。

许多年轻人,对于未知的将来感到迷茫、感到害怕,不晓得自己选择的这一步,会为自己以及人生带来怎样的后果,因为越想越多,结果举步不前,甚至放弃了前进的机会。

又或许,年轻的时候,我们经历着许多糟糕、痛苦的事情,因为害怕、因为彷徨,结果选择退缩,回到最安全的堡垒,人生匆匆走过,回望过去,才觉得当初的自己不应想太多,多一点冲动,或许就不会留下无限的遗憾。

叔本华有一句话说的特别好:“当你回顾一生时,它看似规划好的剧情,当你身历其中时,却是一团糟,只是一个接着一个而来的意外,事后你回顾时,却是完美的。”

这一句,特别适合送给各位青春正炙的年轻人,让你们知道“相信所选,坚持初衷”的重要性。

年轻时,你将会遇到很多人生你未曾经历的事,这些事,很有可能会改变一生命运,又或许,你会面对一个接着一个忙乱,导致你无法喘息的遭遇,而事情以你无法掌握的方向前行,因为无法掌控,所以你害怕。

但是请你不要退缩、不要放弃,你现在所遇到的事情,其实是涨跌人生的真面貌,最重要的是秉持自己的初衷,不轻易改变,始终如一的走在自己选择的道路上。我相信,你所想要的,一定会实现。

让我告诉你,真正的甜美,将等在所有的痛苦背后,只要耐心等待,相信你将会等到这一天的到临。

当然,我也明白,年轻人所处的这个年代,是一个彷徨的时代,你必须要花更多力气去选择相信或不相信什么,或是该如何看待这个世界。

但请你不要忘记,你永远都有选择的机会,而你的选择将决定你的命运,虽然这是一个竞争激烈的年代,但不代表你完全没有机会,不用担心自己没有表现的舞台,若你因为害怕而放弃了尝试,那就等同于放弃了稍纵即逝的机会。

机会不等人,生命也没有Take Two,你此刻选择放弃,未来你将后悔你今天所做的决定。

人人都说,要实现梦想一定要有明确的目标或是规划,但除了这些硬性的东西之外,要实现梦想,还需要多一点勇气、多一点想法.

我所坚持的“想法”是一个单纯又不妥协的意念,当你遇到挫折与困境时,这个意念能让你有勇气面对未来,让你不忘初衷的美好愿景。

我曾年轻过,对于未来,我也曾迷茫、也曾感到害怕,但我是一位极不易妥协的人,我从未有过放弃梦想、放弃任何可能性的念头。我的选择,成就了今天的自己,正因如此,我才说后悔没有参考价值,因为我一旦选择了,就会无怨无悔。

我很感激那位年轻人的提问,让我得以重新思考“相信与选择”之间的羁绊,也让我再次有机会提醒在生命中每一个时刻的自己:把握当下,相信所选,没有懊悔与遗憾的人生就是最完美![/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

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